To the tune of "The Bear Went Over the Mountain":
The mama went over the laundry mountain,
The mama went over the laundry mountain,
The mama went over the laundry mountain,
To see what she could see.
And all that she could see,
And all that she could see,
Was the other side of the laundry mountain,
The other side of the laundry mountain,
The other side of the laundry mountain,
Was all that she could see.
I'm not complaining. Well, not loudly. Laundry is part of life, and I love the one I've got. But if I'm telling my story -- our story -- I would be remiss not to include laundry. Because there's a lot of laundry happening.
Every family has its way of doing laundry. I do ours, and my way isn't revolutionary. I wash and dry a handful of loads when that right combination of need and being able to stomach the chore exists (usually twice a week).
Once the laundry is clean and dry, I pile it on the rattan chair and ottoman in our den. Nobody who lives here ever sits in the rattan chair. I guess we're all so used to it being piled with clothes that even when it's not, we don't think to sit on it.
The folding is where I get stuck. I have to take a breather of at least a day before I can start to fold. Once I talk myself into it, I sort the mountain into six molehills: one for each of us, plus towels and hanging clothes. Then I tackle one molehill at a time. That way, even if I get to only one or two molehills, I feel like I've completed something, gotten somewhere. Even if we've dirtied more than I've done in the time that it's taken me.


